As children prepare to return to school this week, reflecting on the past holiday spent at home, it’s likely that many of parents have engaged in heartfelt conversations with them, perhaps even enjoyed one-on-one time with each child.
These moments often evoke memories of the parents’ words, echoing through time, resonating as clearly today as they did years ago. Even the wisdom of the late relatives, who passed away years ago, remains vivid and impactful.
The Executive Director of Hope Regeneration Africa Dickson Tumuranye notes that he recalls the seemingly mundane, yet profoundly meaningful advice his parents imparted. Their words, though repetitive and at times seemingly harsh, held profound truths that shaped his mindset and approach to life. Take, for instance, the stern reminder about the significance of school fees:
“This is the only money I have now, take it. If you eat it, know you are eating your future.” Such admonitions may have felt tedious and strict at the moment, but they instilled a deep-seated understanding of responsibility and foresight.
“Indeed, the cautionary tale of misusing school fees lingered. Serving as a powerful deterrent against recklessness. It’s remarkable how these parental directives, initially dismissed as boring or irrelevant, can profoundly influence our decisions and attitudes, even guiding us through pivotal moments in life.” He narrated
He asked parents that as we usher our children back to school, it’s crucial to address common distractions and pitfalls that can derail their educational journey. Sharing personal stories of past mistakes can foster connection and understanding. Contrary to the belief that revealing one’s flaws is detrimental, it actually humanizes us in the eyes of our children, demonstrating the resilience and growth stern from acknowledging and rectifying errors.
